6 ways to know she’s CRAY CRAY…. and you need to run away

crazy eyes

We’ve all been there, you meet an intelligent, attractive girl out somewhere.  You get her phone number, maybe you friend her on Facebook.

You start chatting, you think she’s pretty amazing.  But you have this thought somewhere in the back of your head, that is noring its way out slowly.

You can’t quite put your finger on what it is… but you already know but don’t want to admit it…  Shes Cray Cray, we mean she has the crazy eyes.

She TEXT’s non-stop

With modern communication the way it is these days, it is easy to send a text or a Facebook message.  It’s ok to text simple thing like, “Hey how was your day” or “Can you pick up some milk”.

It is not OK to have 150 text message in a day, that is obsessive.

Texting is a quick simple means of communication, it’s not meant as a way of having a conversation.  Pick up the phone, or just ignore the texts, till you have the time to call.

If she starts to email, text and Facebook message you all in the same day, and the number is north of 25… RUN……

Take the obsessive electronic communication as a sign no 1.

CRay Cray women

Is she a crier

This is our favourite, but let’s be gentle with this one, women are emotionally based, and that’s what we love about them. Women will cry…  A woman that is CRAY CRAY cries a lot. I mean they will cry at a drop of a hat.

You can call it crocodile tears. .   They use crying as a way to get attention…  things like no milk in the fridge, you didn’t return here 26th text for the day.  You know what that means, yep sign no 2.

She’s not over her ex

It might be 6 months after her last relationship, but is she still driving past her ex-boyfriend’s house.  It means she can’t or hasn’t let go or the last bloke.  BIG warning signs here.

She got more than you on the go

Now this one is tricky to catch, but you need to keep your ears open for this one.  It might be her talking about 1 or 2 guys regularly.  Maybe she getting texts or messages from multiple guys.

Maybe she does dancing and likes taking photos of herself draped over guys.

Yep, you guessed it, that’s a sign.

She makes you pay

These days, there is equality in pay, men and women are on the same footing.  It is not the 50’s women can pay for there own shit.

It’s fair to take it to turn about,  you pay for a dinner she pays for lunch.  If your paying for everything, shes wants to date a paycheck, not you.

She can’t commit to anything

It doesn’t matter if its lunch, dinner, sex. if she can’t commit to seeing you at any time other then when it suits her.  She’s playing with you…  It means you are on her hook.

That’s it, 6 easy ways to know that she is playing with you, and she’s Cray Cray.  Do what you need to, crazy sex is hot, but dating them and thinking its got a future is a very different thing.

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Sarah October 31, 2018 at 8:02 am

What a load of rubbish… maybe this sort of misogynist dribble is why you men spend so much time at home playing Call of duty.

Jacob November 1, 2018 at 7:01 am

Hi Sarah..

no offence meant. But its a simple view point on dating. Don’t worry we are certainly aware that there are plenty of CRAY CRAY men out there as well.

scott December 9, 2018 at 11:25 am

Yeah.. I dated a crazy girl for a month once.. she sent 80 text in one day…

It was exhausting..

Love the photo …… How I Met Your mother.. I think..

Jacob January 6, 2019 at 11:43 pm

Hey Scott,

Yes we’ve all been there, that’s for sure. And yes we freely admit there are some crazy dudes out there as well…


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