Girls, if you are single and have been that way for a while, there is more then a fair chance you could be too high maintenance for him.
To be blunt, men are simple creatures, a bit like cattle dogs, you give them a command and when they complete it, you pat them on the head, and give them a treat.
If you are making it too hard for a man, they will run away from you like crazy, and no I am not saying to act like a 1950’s housewife and cook and clean for him. I am saying STOP BEING HIGH MAINTENANCE.
What’s being High Maintenance
If you criticize every decision he makes – IE. He buys a car cheap car that he can afford, as that’s what he budgeted for. And you start pulling apart that decision. It is emasculating.
If you criticize the way he holds a wine glass – It is emasculating and makes you look like a control freak.
If you continuously stick him with the bill – That’s just being a cheap bitch.
You get the message, it’s being unreasonable when all you should be is reasonable.
You do not need to compete with a man
Believe it or not, as women, we have the upper hand at all times. We are different from men at all turns, we are emotionally based, we are soft and squidgy, we are nurturers. To put it simply men aren’t
It’s how you decide to treat and interact with a man that will make all the difference, in whether your relationships move forward or tanks quickly.
Do you think you jump tall buildings?
Its a mistaken belief, to run around thinking you can jump tall buildings and are prepared to leave a trail of destruction behind you.
It’s great to be self-aware, but you really need to have situational awareness, be mindful of how your actions affect things around you.
I am women hear me roar.
The suffrage movement is over, so is the burn the bras. Most countries both developed and developing have had female prime ministers.
The tip here, is to let it go, let men be men and you get busy celebrating being a woman. Trust me when you do, it can be the best thing you ever do to help your relationship.